For any of you who have been reading my blog with any regularity at all, it has probably become more than apparent that it's been a really, really, really long time since I had an orgasm, and even longer since I was able to share one with somebody! Well, I'm absolutely elated to share that just recently I accomplished both of these magical things...in one night!!!! Here's how a night that I won't forget for quite some time unfolded....
I was incredibly horney all day on Monday, the 16th. As you can probably imagine, after going as I had, I was pretty much living in a perpetual state of horniness, but this particular night was exceptional!!!! I went over to see him at about 6:30. Just seeing him put the feeling at bay, but it was extremely short lived! The longer I was there, the worse it got. By about 9:45 I told him that I was going to go as soon as the show that we were watching was over. It just so happened that that show ended at 10 o'clock. He asked me if I was going to lay down already, and I told him I didn't know, but that I did know that I needed to take care of something before it drove me absolutely insane. He knew exactly what I was talking about, and followed it with, "You can do that with people at your house?"
"Yeah, I have ways around it."
"Why don't you just stay here? I have a feeling you'll have a better chance of doing what you need to do here than you will over there."
"No, it's okay, I'll be fine."
At 9:52, I drove over to the door, and hit the door button to let myself out. His door only stays open for approximately 10 seconds after you hit the button, which on most days is enough time for me to be able to get turned around and get far enough out the door where it's not going to close on me before I get there. Tonight, that wasn't the case though. I missed it both the first and second times. The third time, I decided to get myself in position so that I was facing the door, and ask his Service Dog Yanni to hit the door button for me. He did just as he was asked, but I still missed it. After the third failed attempt, Chan says, "see there, look at that! I told you, just stay here, you'll be fine."
"I told you, I'll be okay. Besides that, I'm about to get really crabby as a result of being so incredibly horny, and you don't want to be around me when that happens. Trust me, I'm trying to protect you!"
I made another attempt at getting the door, but again to no avail. It was at that point that I decided to call my sister and see what time she wanted me to come back so she could help me shower. She said it really didn't matter as long as it was before midnight. I told her I would be there. Right after I got off the phone with her, I made the decision that I was going to stay with him until midnight, and I did. At midnight, I came back here, and my sister was still working on some wedding planning stuff which she had been working on all afternoon. I waited about 10 minutes, and probably would have waited longer if something hadn't occurred to me during that time span. I asked her what time she wanted to lay down, and she said it really didn't matter. I asked her if she was going to want to get things started in the next 10 minutes, because I had something I had forgotten to ask Chan while I was over there, and I wanted to ask him while I was thinking about it. She said that was fine, and I told her to just call my cell phone when she was ready to get things started.
She said, "let's plan on 12:45, that's an hour from now."
I told her that was fine because he would probably be in bed by then anyway since he had to work on Tuesday. With that, I bolted out of my apartment door, toward his. As I always do when I go over there, I knocked once, and then waited approximately a minute and a half for him to get to the door. When he didn't, I had a sneaking suspicion that I knew exactly where he was at. I bolted toward the elevator, took it downstairs, and when it landed on the first floor, I bolted out. Sure enough, my suspicions were right. Just as he always does at that time of night, he had taken Yanni out for the last time that evening. When I saw him coming, I let him in the building so that he didn't have to struggle with his entry card, and once he was inside, I wasted no time!
I said, "I knew I'd probably find you down here if you didn't answer the door. When I went back there, she said she wasn't ready to do anything yet, and while I was sitting there waiting, something occurred to me. I have a proposal of sorts for you."
That last sentence sort of hung in the air as we went up the elevator together, and reentered his apartment. Once inside, I wasted even less time than I had when he had come back into the building. I just dove right in, hoping that I would come out on the other side without swallowing too much water.
I said, "so, here's the proposal I have for you. Since neither of us are getting what we need in individual relationships, and at this point we've pretty much only got each other, I think we should start helping each other out, because quite frankly, if we don't, and I don't have an orgasm soon, I may just go insane!" "So, here's what I was thinking. On the nights that I am able to stay later with you, and/or the nights that you're not wearing a condom when it's time for both of us to start settling down, we could make something happen." "At this moment, the night that comes to mind is Fridays because you usually take a shower and on Fridays, don't put a condom on afterwards, and I'm able to stay with you later. So, what do you think about that?"
"Well, it doesn't have to be on a specific night, you know."
"No, you're right, it doesn't. I was just thinking that Fridays would be easiest because on Fridays you're typically not wearing a condom from the time you get up to that time you go to bed, which would make things a little bit easier."
"Well, I'm not wearing one now."
"I know you're not, but I was going to go take a shower, so..."
"but she just said she didn't want to do anything right now."
"No, you're missing it. I'm saying that I was going to go take a shower, and that's why I didn't bring this up earlier. Now works for me, as soon as I reposition myself in my chair."
There was a period of about 10 minutes after my last statement of nothing but utter silence. I was absolutely positive that this was going to be just like all the other times I had dove into the pool and ended up drowning before I got to the other side. His statement that followed that silence only cemented the idea that once again I was going to drown, and I set myself up for it.
He said, "I seriously think I'm going to go to bed, my body is cramping up."
"That sucks!"
In the silence that followed, all I could do was proverbially slam my head against a wall thinking, why do I set myself up for things like this to happen? I've told Daniel a hundred times that there's a very good reason why I don't directly asked for things like this. If I don't directly ask, and it doesn't happen, I won't be shattered into a million little pieces when it doesn't. Yet, for some reason, something compelled me to take a huge leap of faith, and I did, and for what?
In the instant that I was just about cry because it had happened again, and to make matters worse, I did it to myself, he came over and parked his chair next to mine. With that, the rest is history, and only for him and I to know!
I will confidently say this though:it was one of the most magical nights I've had in a long time, and it won't be one that I'll forget any time soon! Thanks Chan man for helping me create such a magical night, and a magical memory that I may never forget!!! 